RDS/IB: Disable flow control in sysctl and explain why

Backwards compatibility with rds 3.0 causes protocol-
based flow control to be disabled as a side-effect.

I don't want to pull out FC support from the IB transport
but I do want to document and keep the sysctl consistent
if possible.

Signed-off-by: Andy Grover <andy.grover@oracle.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>