xen/blkfront: use tagged queuing for barriers

When barriers are supported, then use QUEUE_ORDERED_TAG to tell the block
subsystem that it doesn't need to do anything else with the barriers.
Previously we used ORDERED_DRAIN which caused the block subsystem to
drain all pending IO before submitting the barrier, which would be
very expensive.

Signed-off-by: Jeremy Fitzhardinge <jeremy.fitzhardinge@citrix.com>