[media] v4l: vb2: add prepare/finish callbacks to allocators

This patch adds support for prepare/finish callbacks in VB2 allocators. These
callback are used for buffer flushing.

Signed-off-by: Marek Szyprowski <m.szyprowski@samsung.com>
Acked-by: Laurent Pinchart <laurent.pinchart@ideasonboard.com>
Acked-by: Hans Verkuil <hans.verkuil@cisco.com>
Tested-by: Mauro Carvalho Chehab <mchehab@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Mauro Carvalho Chehab <mchehab@redhat.com>