nvme-rdma: merge init_request and exit_request methods

Now that we get the tagset passed we can have a single implementation for
the I/O and admin queues.

Signed-off-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Reviewed-by: Max Gurtovoy <maxg@mellanox.com>
Reviewed-by: Sagi Grimberg <sagi@grimberg.me>
Signed-off-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>