dm: verify suspend_locking assumptions at runtime

Ensure that the assumptions about the caller holding suspend_lock
are checked at runtime if lockdep is enabled.

Signed-off-by: Bart Van Assche <bart.vanassche@sandisk.com>
Reviewed-by: Hannes Reinecke <hare@suse.com>
Signed-off-by: Mike Snitzer <snitzer@redhat.com>