[media] v4l: ctrls: Unlocked variants of v4l2_ctrl_s_ctrl{,_int64}()

Implement unlocked variants of v4l2_ctrl_s_ctrl() and
v4l2_ctrl_s_ctrl_int64(). As drivers need to set controls as they access
driver internal state elsewhere than in the control framework unlocked
variants of these functions become handy.

Signed-off-by: Sakari Ailus <sakari.ailus@linux.intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Hans Verkuil <hans.verkuil@cisco.com>
Signed-off-by: Mauro Carvalho Chehab <m.chehab@samsung.com>