tipc: rename enum names of node flags

Rename node flags to action_flags as well as its enum names so
that they can reflect its real meanings.

Signed-off-by: Ying Xue <ying.xue@windriver.com>
Reviewed-by: Jon Maloy <jon.maloy@ericsson.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>