netfilter: connlimit: move insertion of new element out of count function

Allows easier code-reuse in followup patches.

Reviewed-by: Jesper Dangaard Brouer <brouer@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Florian Westphal <fw@strlen.de>
Signed-off-by: Pablo Neira Ayuso <pablo@netfilter.org>