IB/core: refactor ib_create_qp

Split the XRC magic into a separate function, and return early on failure
to make the initialization code readable.

Signed-off-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Tested-by: Steve Wise <swise@opengridcomputing.com>
Reviewed-by: Bart Van Assche <bart.vanassche@sandisk.com>
Reviewed-by: Sagi Grimberg <sagi@grimberg.me>
Reviewed-by: Steve Wise <swise@opengridcomputing.com>
Signed-off-by: Doug Ledford <dledford@redhat.com>