isci: replace isci_timer list with proper embedded timers

Rather than preallocating a list of timers and doling them out at runtime,
embed a struct timerlist in each object that needs one.  A struct sci_timer
interface is introduced to manage the timer cancellation semantics which
currently need to guarantee the timer is cancelled while holding
spin_lock(ihost->scic_lock).  Since the timeout functions also need to acquire
the lock it currently prevents the driver from using del_timer_sync() for
runtime cancellations.

del_timer_sync() is used however before the objects go out of scope.

Signed-off-by: Edmund Nadolski <edmund.nadolski@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Dan Williams <dan.j.williams@intel.com>