blk-mq: add BLK_MQ_F_DEFER_ISSUE support flag

Drivers can now tell blk-mq if they take advantage of the deferred
issue through 'last' or not. If they do, don't do queue-direct
for sync IO. This is a preparation patch for the nvme conversion.

Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@fb.com>