[IPSEC]: Add xfrm_state_afinfo->init_flags

This patch adds the xfrm_state_afinfo->init_flags hook which allows
each address family to perform any common initialisation that does
not require a corresponding destructor call.

It will be used subsequently to set the XFRM_STATE_NOPMTUDISC flag
in IPv4.

It also fixes up the error codes returned by xfrm_init_state.

Signed-off-by: Herbert Xu <herbert@gondor.apana.org.au>
Acked-by: James Morris <jmorris@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>