i40e: Opcode and structures required by OEM Post Update AQ command and add new NVM arq message

This is a part of implementation which contains data structures and
opcode for new AQ command. There's a new ARQ message that gets sent
near the end of the NVM update process that the driver should recognize
and ignore, rather than printing an Unknown Event error.

Change-ID: I04830a5bcae14823e16b9424cc4165e169336c1f
Signed-off-by: Michal Kosiarz <michal.kosiarz@intel.com>
Acked-by: Shannon Nelson <shannon.nelson@intel.com>
Tested-by: Andrew Bowers <andrewx.bowers@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Jeff Kirsher <jeffrey.t.kirsher@intel.com>