btrfs: add assertion helpers for extent buffer write lock counters

The write_locks are a simple counter to track locking balance and used
to assert tree locks.  Add helpers to make it conditionally work only in
DEBUG builds.  Will be used in followup patches.

Reviewed-by: Nikolay Borisov <nborisov@suse.com>
Reviewed-by: Johannes Thumshirn <jthumshirn@suse.de>
Signed-off-by: David Sterba <dsterba@suse.com>