IB/hfi1, qib, rdmavt: Move AETH credit functions into rdmavt

Add rvt_compute_aeth() and rvt_get_credit() as shared functions in
rdmavt, moved from hfi1/qib logic.

Reviewed-by: Dennis Dalessandro <dennis.dalessandro@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Brian Welty <brian.welty@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Dennis Dalessandro <dennis.dalessandro@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Doug Ledford <dledford@redhat.com>