nvmet-rdma: use generic inet_pton_with_scope

Instead of parsing address strings, use a generic
helper. This also adds ipv6 (with address scopes)
support.

Reviewed-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Signed-off-by: Sagi Grimberg <sagi@grimberg.me>
Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@fb.com>