KVM: make pid available for uevents without debugfs

Simplify and improve the code so that the PID is always available in
the uevent even when debugfs is not available.

This adds a userspace_pid field to struct kvm, as per Radim's
suggestion, so that the PID can be retrieved on destruction too.

Acked-by: Janosch Frank <frankja@linux.vnet.ibm.com>
Fixes: 286de8f6 ("KVM: trigger uevents when creating or destroying a VM")
Signed-off-by: Claudio Imbrenda <imbrenda@linux.vnet.ibm.com>
Signed-off-by: Paolo Bonzini <pbonzini@redhat.com>