tg3: Don't send APE events for NCSI firmware

NCSI firmware does not accept APE events.  It relies on a "driver state"
location in shared memory to tell it what the driver's current state is.

This patch pivots the code to use the new driver state scheme.

Reviewed-by: Benjamin Li <benli@broadcom.com>
Reviewed-by: Michael Chan <mchan@broadcom.com>
Signed-off-by: Matt Carlson <mcarlson@broadcom.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>