dm thin metadata: only check incompat features on open

Factor out __check_incompat_features and only call it once when we open
the metadata device rather than at the beginning of every transaction.

Signed-off-by: Mike Snitzer <snitzer@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Joe Thornber <ejt@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Alasdair G Kergon <agk@redhat.com>