md: call md_stop_writes from md_stop

This moves the call to the other side of set_readonly, but that should
not be an issue.
This encapsulates in 'md_stop' all of the functionality for internally
stopping the array, leaving all the interactions with externalities
(sysfs, request_queue, gendisk) in do_md_stop.

Signed-off-by: NeilBrown <neilb@suse.de>