mlx4_core: Change a few DMFS fields names to match firmare spec

Change struct mlx4_net_trans_rule_hw_eth :: vlan_id name to vlan_tag

Change struct mlx4_net_trans_rule_hw_ib :: r_u_qpn name to l3_qpn

The patch doesn't introduce any functional change or API change
towards the firmware.

Signed-off-by: Hadar Hen Zion <hadarh@mellanox.com>
Signed-off-by: Or Gerlitz <ogerlitz@mellanox.com>
Signed-off-by: Roland Dreier <roland@purestorage.com>