xfs: remove the magic numbers in xfs_btree_block-related len macros

replace the magic numbers by offsetof(...) and sizeof(...), and add two
extra checks on xfs_check_ondisk_structs()

[dchinner: renamed header structures to be more descriptive]

Signed-off-by: Hou Tao <houtao1@huawei.com>
Reviewed-by: Carlos Maiolino <cmaiolino@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Dave Chinner <david@fromorbit.com>