ASoC: core: Pass kcontrol to bytes tlv callbacks

Add kcontrol to the tlv callbacks in soc_bytes_ext, as it is
needed for referencing the corresponding control in the driver
code

Also fix the only upstream user in topology core

Signed-off-by: Mythri P K <mythri.p.k@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Jeeja KP <jeeja.kp@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Vinod Koul <vinod.koul@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Mark Brown <broonie@kernel.org>