net/mlx5: Modify RQ bitmask from mlx5 ifc

Use mlx5 ifc MODIFY_BITMASK_VSD in mlx5e_modify_rq_vsd and expose counter
set capability bit in hca caps structure.

Signed-off-by: Alex Vesker <valex@mellanox.com>
Signed-off-by: Saeed Mahameed <saeedm@mellanox.com>
Signed-off-by: Leon Romanovsky <leon@kernel.org>