btrfs: switch inode_cache option handling to pending changes

The pending mount option(s) now share namespace and bits with the normal
options, and the existing one for (inode_cache) is unset unconditionally
at each transaction commit.

Introduce a separate namespace for pending changes and enhance the
descriptions of the intended change to use separate bits for each
action.

Signed-off-by: David Sterba <dsterba@suse.cz>