regmap: Allow installing custom reg_update_bits function

This commit allows installing a custom reg_update_bits function for cases where
the hardware provides a mechanism to set or clear register bits without a
read/modify/write cycle. Such is the case with the Microchip ENCX24J600.

If a custom reg_update_bits function is provided, it will only be used against
volatile registers.

Signed-off-by: Jon Ringle <jringle@gridpoint.com>
Signed-off-by: Mark Brown <broonie@kernel.org>