fuse: fix unlocked access to processing queue

fuse_dev_release() assumes that it's the only one referencing the
fpq->processing list, but that's not true, since fuse_abort_conn() can be
doing the same without any serialization between the two.

Fixes: c3696046 ("fuse: separate pqueue for clones")
Cc: <stable@vger.kernel.org> # v4.2
Signed-off-by: Miklos Szeredi <mszeredi@redhat.com>