[XFS] fix, speedup and simplify atime handling let the VFS handle atime

updates and only sync back to the xfs inode when nessecary

SGI-PV: 946679
SGI-Modid: xfs-linux-melb:xfs-kern:203362a

Signed-off-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@sgi.com>
Signed-off-by: Nathan Scott <nathans@sgi.com>