IB/mlx5: Add port counter support for Receive WQs

Counters weren't updated due to Receive WQs' traffic since the
counter-id was not associated with the RQ.

Added support for associating the q-counter-id with the Receive WQ.
The attachment is done only when changing WQ's state from RESET to
READY in modify-WQ command.

FW support is required for the above, without this support
Receive WQ counters will not count.

Signed-off-by: Majd Dibbiny <majd@mellanox.com>
Signed-off-by: Leon Romanovsky <leon@kernel.org>
Signed-off-by: Doug Ledford <dledford@redhat.com>