net/mlx4_core: Add HW enforcement to VF link state

When the firmware supports the UPDATE_QP command, if the VF link is disabled,
block all QPs opened by the VF, by programming the UPDATE_QP command to drop
all RX & TX traffic to/from these QPs. Operates only in VST mode.

Signed-off-by: Rony Efraim <ronye@mellanox.com>
Signed-off-by: Or Gerlitz <ogerlitz@mellanox.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>