netfilter: nf_tables: Add new attributes into nft_set to store user data.

User data is stored at after 'nft_set_ops' private data into 'data[]'
flexible array. The field 'udata' points to user data and 'udlen' stores
its length.

Add new flag NFTA_SET_USERDATA.

Signed-off-by: Carlos Falgueras García <carlosfg@riseup.net>
Signed-off-by: Pablo Neira Ayuso <pablo@netfilter.org>