mei: use structured buffer for the write buffer

We can drop useless castings and use proper types.
We remove the casting in mei_hbm_hdr function
and add new function mei_hbm_stop_request_prepare that
utilize the new structure

Signed-off-by: Tomas Winkler <tomas.winkler@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Greg Kroah-Hartman <gregkh@linuxfoundation.org>