svcrdma: Generalize svc_rdma_xdr_decode_req()

Clean up: Pass in just the piece of the svc_rqst that is needed
here.

While we're in the area, add an informative documenting comment.

Signed-off-by: Chuck Lever <chuck.lever@oracle.com>
Signed-off-by: J. Bruce Fields <bfields@redhat.com>