i40e: add more struct size checks

Add struct size checks to many of the indirect structs and a few
command structs that were left out previously.

Change-ID: I7810b9af0f04e3ced670639f8671daf7df9b3f4d
Signed-off-by: Shannon Nelson <shannon.nelson@intel.com>
Acked-by: Greg Rose <gregory.v.rose@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Jeff Kirsher <jeffrey.t.kirsher@intel.com>