devm: make allocations numa aware by default

Given we already have a device just use dev_to_node() to provide hint
allocations for devres.  However, current devres_alloc() users will need
to explicitly opt-in with devres_alloc_node().

Reviewed-by: Tejun Heo <tj@kernel.org>
Reviewed-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Signed-off-by: Dan Williams <dan.j.williams@intel.com>