virtio: return ENOMEM on out of memory

add_buf returns ring size on out of memory,
this is not what devices expect.

Signed-off-by: Michael S. Tsirkin <mst@redhat.com>
Acked-by: Amit Shah <amit.shah@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Rusty Russell <rusty@rustcorp.com.au>
Cc: stable@kernel.org # .34.x