netfilter: nfnetlink_queue: validate dependencies to avoid breaking atomicity

Check that dependencies are fulfilled before updating the queue
instance, otherwise we can leave things in intermediate state on errors
in nfqnl_recv_config().

Signed-off-by: Ken-ichirou MATSUZAWA <chamas@h4.dion.ne.jp>
Signed-off-by: Pablo Neira Ayuso <pablo@netfilter.org>