pnfs: clean up *_resend_to_mds

Clean up pnfs_read_done_resend_to_mds and pnfs_write_done_resend_to_mds:
 - instead of passing all arguments from a nfs_pgio_header, just pass the header
 - share the common code

Reviewed-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Signed-off-by: Weston Andros Adamson <dros@primarydata.com>
Signed-off-by: Trond Myklebust <trond.myklebust@primarydata.com>