i40e: Fix a bug in the update logic for FDIR SB filter.

The update filter logic was causing a kernel panic in the original code.
We need to compare the input set to decide whether or not to delete a
filter since we do not have a hash stored. This new design helps fix the issue.

Change-ID: I2462b108e58ca4833312804cda730b4660cc18c9
Signed-off-by: Anjali Singhai Jain <anjali.singhai@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Catherine Sullivan <catherine.sullivan@intel.com>
Tested-by: Kavindya Deegala <kavindya.s.deegala@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Jeff Kirsher <jeffrey.t.kirsher@intel.com>