pnfs: add CB_LAYOUTRECALL handling

This is the heart of the wave 2 submission.  Add the code to trigger
drain and forget of any afected layouts.  In addition, we set a
"barrier", below which any LAYOUTGET reply is ignored.  This is to
compensate for the fact that we do not wait for outstanding LAYOUTGETs
to complete as per section 12.5.5.2.1 of RFC 5661.

Signed-off-by: Fred Isaman <iisaman@netapp.com>
Signed-off-by: Trond Myklebust <Trond.Myklebust@netapp.com>