tipc: standardize sendmsg routine of connected socket

Standardize the behaviour of waiting for events in TIPC send_packet()
so that all variables of socket or port structures are protected within
socket lock, allowing the process of calling sendmsg() to be woken up
at appropriate time.

Signed-off-by: Ying Xue <ying.xue@windriver.com>
Reviewed-by: Jon Maloy <jon.maloy@ericsson.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>